Age...

does age really matter...


who says we have to make age matter?


how come society dictates that we should live by the age factor?


been having this conversation with a friend a few years younger then me and was wondering how is it that we are able to be such good friends pass the age barrier but as soon as we talk about a guy its inherent that I don't feel comfortable dating one younger than me. I know that the Prophet (SAW) was younger than Khadija (RA) but that still does not change the fact that i view life in this way.



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taqdeer said...

I agree.

Obviously once you are mature age doesnt matter in the big picture.

All that comes with age is knowledge and wisdom. If people can respect that - then age won't be a social barrier.

Very nice blog :)

Zahira said...

Taqdeer -> Thanks guy and exactly my point now i need to gain sum knowledge and wisdom :)

arshad said...

:)

r said...

LoL. eb was in his elemnt around the ladies!

M Junaid said...
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Zahira said...

r you know he always is :)

Moe said...

Age is just a classification and means very little beyond that. however the older i get the more i realize this that age really doesnt matter that much

Zahira said...

hmmm true that but till the day that happens to me it will always be an issue

Zahira said...

i love big hairy caucasian men with sultry beer bellies and hairy backs

thats the weird thing thogh, ive always had a thing for older men, i mean, way older men. anna nicole style

M Junaid said...

tip - next time log off before you are done with my pc :p

Zahira said...

damn you lol o well now you let my secret out sigh what am i gonna do?!!?!?!
btw i thought i did log off hmmmm

safiyyamk said...

zah i agree with you... i prefer guys older than me

Zahira said...

Safiyya -> the question though is why? why do we prefer older men? is it society that dictates our choices?

Fatima said...

i agree with you.
i think that older guys tend to be more mature than the younger guys and aren't worry about the next "thrill" in life - as they have probably experienced it already!
and we don't complete thrillers anyways :P

(speaking of which .. i need to start putting THICK make up on in order to look older..because these 18year old boys seem to be hitting on me lately. i feel like a cradle snatcher...eek!)

Fatima said...
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Fatima said...

*worried!

mazozo said...

Lolp na age dont matter its all relative

Mukhtar Ahmad Khan said...

It's really a state of mind and preference. Beyond that age as being an issue is baseless. If the individual is seen as a person independent of age and no fault lines drawn, then it would be evident that age is a premeditated default setting based on preference.

Hi, I'm 38 :) now see, it suddenly becomes an issue, yet it wasn't even in the picture before it was mentioned. So really, one can gain insight into the depths of a person's soul, without the age factor. (I'm really 21)

Zahira said...

Fatima->Lol i know what you mean about small boys hitting on you try a 14year old sigh :)
I also figure thats why i like older men but i know some of it is not true maybe because I have come across those who are far beyond their ages of maturity.
Muktar-> I normally don't judge a person by their age ask anyone i have a wide range of friends but when it becomes all to serious then i start looking at it as a problem but not often.
Moosa->Age does not matter its they way the relationship was originally built that does...you know you like a baby bro to me ;)

Dew said...

Aww. cute

I personally do not mind if the guy is a year or 2 younger than me, as long as he can prove he is mature enough to handle me;)

Dew said...

And yes AGE DOES NOT MATTER!

Age aint nothing but a number baby

M Junaid said...

hmm - people say that you can hit it off really well with people who are six years younger of older than you, so that'l mean theoretically i can date an 18 year old, or a thirty year old... but thing is - i doubt i'l date anyone who is six years older than me. two years older is about as far as i'l go. as for dating girls younger than me - not sure what a good cut off age is - but they must not be the little girl giggly type - that irritates me.

sometimes i'm mature, sometimes i'm not - i guess if i can find that in a girl, i'l date her, even if its a bigger gap than a few years..

besides - when i'm 75 and single, i'm gonna date someone whose about thirty years younger anyway :P

Zahira said...

always knew you would juns but have you realised how you flirt with the younger impressionable minds on campus lol
Me Evil:)

mazozo said...

Lol and baby bro i do enjoy it has perks lol me hungry now i want veg uncle burger

Yes you evil!

Zahira said...

u being evil now with the yummy burger :(

Mukhtar Ahmad Khan said...

veg uncle (i taut it was veg aunty) turned into a meat plek :)

M Junaid said...

i'm not complaining - their chicken burgers are awesome - and filling
much better than samira's - also the barkaat levels are high :)

mazozo said...

Lol ya very very good there mutton burger is only burger on campus of filling me up

M Junaid said...

Hey

my new url is concerningmjk.blogspot.com

MJ

Zahira said...

shot juns will change it mwah

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